15 things I will definitely tell my daughter One Day….

People say that time just flies away from looking into the innocent eyes and lovely smiles of children and it is definitely not an exaggeration. After becoming a mom to a lovely darling, I can experience the hidden fact behind those words. I can now proudly say that the presence of a baby can make the future worth living...

Every time I look into my daughter’s eyes I fall in love with her mesmerizing smile. I tend to forget the past or worry about the future but will hope to live life simply to cherish that moment. I hope the same happens with almost every parent. But later when she sleeps I get to think about how she would face and accept the challenges life would throw at her. It is only then I remember my responsibility as a mother that I should speak my heart out to my little one and try and tell her certain things, which can help her live right. I make sure that one day I will definitely tell these 15 valuable principles, my parents taught me to my lovely darling… 

ü  Staying good, irrespective of all odds should be your prime motto. Always remember the opposite is worse than death.

ü  Make sure to respect your elders and care for those who are younger than you. Spread love and warmth that can help you win hearts which is much better than climbing the Everest in a record time.

ü  Have an attitude, it can project you in the crowd and make you unique, but never have arrogance it can degrade your standards.

ü  Remember comparison is a curse. Never compare yourself with anyone or allow anyone to do so. I respect the fact that everyone is unique in their own self and wish you to keep up with the same thought.

ü  Self control, Self-respect and Self-confidence can describe you. So never ever lose them for anything.

ü  Satisfaction is the key to happy living.

ü  Have the determination to work hard and succeed. Put in your maximum efforts, but at the end of the day, if the results are sour don’t be hard on yourself, but simply smile and learn to move on, because failure comes only to those who tried and if you really try, one day you will get your result. And if you succeed, beware that it doesn’t go over your head.

ü  Life is full of surprises and unknown challenges. If life plays fair and makes you happy share it. If it brings you an unpleasant treat, have guts to face it bravely.

ü  Know your worth, understand your preferences, value your choices and stand by your promises.

ü  Never let fear of failure stop you from trying something new. Always listen to your inner voice and go accordingly.

ü  Do not have a loose tongue and never ever speak low of someone. Even before doing so imagine yourself in their shoes and think how you feel if someone treats you in the same way.

ü  Panicking won’t help you in any way. Stay calm and cool and just believe in yourself.

ü  Have clarity on when to raise your voice and when to remain silent, doesn’t mean you are dumb, it means you are thoughtful

ü  Education can make you a better human only if you can carry its real essence in your life. Any extracurricular activity you practice is a kind of relaxation you give to your mind and body. So remember to enjoy it and learn it only with interest.

ü   Speak to yourself and learn to enjoy your company. Understand your worth and know your value. Never be around someone who doesn’t recognize it, because it can make your life miserable.

And above all, I advise her to take proper care of her health both physical and mental, so as to stay strong throughout her existence.