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A (HOLY...) Day without ELECTRONIC GADGETS....?????

                       Time has changed a lot from the past. Today, we could not imagine a minute of our day without using some electronic gadgets, which are among us as a part of the innovative skills of our ancestors and hold a great impact on our lives. They are actually invented to save our time  and help us lead a better life. But, do we always use it in the right way??? Is the technology helping us lead our lives in the right way or are we missing some of the most valuable time of our lives with the innovative goods??? Let me use this blog post of mine to channel out my views.... Technology is the life of modern society, but a defect free software doesn't exist..                         Imagine yourself without any of the smart phones, laptops or any other gadgets that keep you busy all day. Intriguing isn't it??? Well If I am supposed to s...

Boredom... A sucking emotional state

            " B oredom, an emotional state, can drag an individual to the verge of insanity or can make him/her extremely creative..."               ....Not even a single word in the quotes is an exaggeration as it could be understood just out of experience.                                                  I find myself hanging out in my space after a long time and the post I am making exactly reveals my current state of mind. As a matter of fact, I strongly believe that boredom comes from a boring mind, but may be I stopped finding myself interesting so that I am writing on something that really is a enemy of human kind.  Therefore, overcoming boredom that's drooping over you through loneliness is of utmost importance and we as humans develop habits to do so. Only if you could...

Put away perfectionism for a peaceful living

The word "just perfect!!!" ( the most im.perfect benchmark) is heard and used pretty frequently by most of us. I am not an exemption. It is because, I do agree to the fact perfection in work is needed for a positive outcome, but at the same time I believe it's not a benchmark to determine and grade an individual and his/her standard. For instance; "I just love her, only if she is perfect!", is a degrading and equally a depressing phrase. "Well it could be much better, only if it was done with perfection..." is far better than the former. But, "it is fine if the job done is good enough", is even more relaxing. Perfectionism - A Perplexing Personality  According to psychology, Perfectionism is a complex personality trait of an individual, (tagged as a perfectionist) coupled with both positive and negative aspects and is often seen in females, freaking them to the core. It is so true and this condition can be closely related to OCD...

Thoughts of a newly married girl...

Every girl dreams of marrying a man of her dreams. And for me, he is some one who could love me for being me, understand me, correct me if I am wrong and ofcourse respect my thoughts and individuality. Luckily I could find that someone special, who could bring the magic in my life, and so we tied the knot for a forever just 2 months ago. On the big day... It is obvious that, on the wedding day, every bride will be happy and excited and I am not an exemption. But at the same time my mind was so occupied with several thoughts, unanswered questions and few worries which I now know are really not necessary.  My thoughts... Here are some of those that went across my grey matter during the celebration and these could be common for almost every bride. I was thinking about my mother, who showers her unconditional love and the pampering I get from her. I thought I will be missing it. And then it's my dad, my hero and a man who did everything he could to watch me happy. ...

Finding Myself at Sea...

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Being a Vizagate, I feel that I share some unknown affinity towards the lovely ocean and the sandy shores. Luckily, my better-half was sharing a similar taste with me in admiring the azure beauty. Into a new chapter in our lives since a month and a half, we choose to spend some time travelling all the way to an archipelago on a holiday.  So all we did was planned and packed our bags to hop in a plane and land at the Andaman.         W e had a chance to explore diverse waters and enjoy their glittering shades for a week. I could notice a child still alive in me, while I was running and playing on the shore.           I found my craving to get the best while searching for a smoother pebble, a more constructive coral and a brighter shell hoping to carry it and preserve it as a memory.         Serene surroundings and the musical voice of ocea...

Andaman- A Secret paradise by the Seaside

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            I f you wish to get relaxed in a serene environment rich in lush green woods, azure sea with sparkling shores flooding with marine life and breath in some unpolluted air, then all you need to do is to take a tour to the splendid outpost of India, the ANDAMAN...          A ndaman Islands, located at the juncture of Bay of Bengal and the Andaman Sea, and are a perfect blend of nature's beauty, marvelous marine life, and the incredible monuments of historic significance.                 A million varieties of under water corals, which provide shelter to diverse marine flora and fauna, spectacularly colored fishes, distinct varieties of other island life forms like the Dugong (sea cow), salt water crocodiles, turtles, butterflies and more explain the great biodiversity seen in the islands. ...

Positively Positive --- "Learn Live & Hope"

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W ell, it really took time for me to get here, but it's just because my life gave me more than I deserve...  On this happy note, I couldn't stop myself from making a post and looking at how my life unfolded following the change... "Life is all about living it to the fullest.  Your Attitude and Your Choices make it all... " Always remember that you are the artist and artisan of your life and you can carve it just in the way you want it to be, your chisel and mallet being the love and belief. All you need to do is to simply remain positively positive and accept everything that comes right in your path.  Everything coming on your way is no good nor bad. It is all the way we look at things.  That is all what I did and that is all keeping me happy today and of course helping me hope for a better tomorrow. B ut, to remain positively positive one need to believe, learn to love and live right from the mistakes of past. I do believe that self analysis...