Sowmya's Blog... The Voice of a Girl!!!

"Mamma!!!              I will wear my pant all by myself!!!!!  I will comb my hair all by myself!!! I can wear my Mickey sandals all by myself!!!” These are some of the early morning words I heard from my little Samyu, until which I did not know that she grew too big. She was not just telling these words but to my surprise doing these things all by herself. Her individuality spoke a lot and made me reflect and also realise few things about the future. I realised that my dear little munchkin is growing all big too quickly and one day there will be no messy toys lying on the floor for me to clean or no more pranks to play to make my fussy eater eat. I also know that there will be a day when no one will be standing knocking at the door and calling me out just for the sake of calling when I escape for a quick shower or sit on the kitchen counter and keep questioning me about everything I do out of great curiosity. In a flash I became aware that there comes a day where I don’

                  This post in my blog will always remain special, as it is all about the most precious person in my life. It is none other than my DAD, the real energy and of course the driving force behind our success and happiness.  I am extremely thankful, privileged and definitely proud to be a dear daughter to my lovely parents, because of whom I am here today, who will cross that one extra mile to see us smile.               It is so true that every dad is a super hero for their child. This fact is never an exaggeration and can gain complete acceptance because, he will sacrifice every bit of him to see his kids flourishing and happy.  He shines with pride when we succeed and is the only man who can never hurt us or tolerate our tears or the reason behind them.               The relationship between father and daughter  is always the most special one and just the actions  can reveal several unspoken facts. I am blessed to live and enjoy such a wonderful bond with the most l

                       Time has changed a lot from the past. Today, we could not imagine a minute of our day without using some electronic gadgets, which are among us as a part of the innovative skills of our ancestors and hold a great impact on our lives. They are actually invented to save our time  and help us lead a better life. But, do we always use it in the right way??? Is the technology helping us lead our lives in the right way or are we missing some of the most valuable time of our lives with the innovative goods??? Let me use this blog post of mine to channel out my views.... Technology is the life of modern society, but a defect free software doesn't exist..                         Imagine yourself without any of the smart phones, laptops or any other gadgets that keep you busy all day. Intriguing isn't it??? Well If I am supposed to spend a day away from all these technological innovations I have some cool thoughts, passing across...                  

            " B oredom, an emotional state, can drag an individual to the verge of insanity or can make him/her extremely creative..."               ....Not even a single word in the quotes is an exaggeration as it could be understood just out of experience.                                                  I find myself hanging out in my space after a long time and the post I am making exactly reveals my current state of mind. As a matter of fact, I strongly believe that boredom comes from a boring mind, but may be I stopped finding myself interesting so that I am writing on something that really is a enemy of human kind.  Therefore, overcoming boredom that's drooping over you through loneliness is of utmost importance and we as humans develop habits to do so. Only if you could read so far without getting bored then do proceed further to find some of my ways to withstand the most sucking life experience. Find yourself a pastime: Dust some books from your

The word "just perfect!!!" ( the most im.perfect benchmark) is heard and used pretty frequently by most of us. I am not an exemption. It is because, I do agree to the fact perfection in work is needed for a positive outcome, but at the same time I believe it's not a benchmark to determine and grade an individual and his/her standard. For instance; "I just love her, only if she is perfect!", is a degrading and equally a depressing phrase. "Well it could be much better, only if it was done with perfection..." is far better than the former. But, "it is fine if the job done is good enough", is even more relaxing. Perfectionism - A Perplexing Personality  According to psychology, Perfectionism is a complex personality trait of an individual, (tagged as a perfectionist) coupled with both positive and negative aspects and is often seen in females, freaking them to the core. It is so true and this condition can be closely related to OCD

Every girl dreams of marrying a man of her dreams. And for me, he is some one who could love me for being me, understand me, correct me if I am wrong and ofcourse respect my thoughts and individuality. Luckily I could find that someone special, who could bring the magic in my life, and so we tied the knot for a forever just 2 months ago. On the big day... It is obvious that, on the wedding day, every bride will be happy and excited and I am not an exemption. But at the same time my mind was so occupied with several thoughts, unanswered questions and few worries which I now know are really not necessary.  My thoughts... Here are some of those that went across my grey matter during the celebration and these could be common for almost every bride. I was thinking about my mother, who showers her unconditional love and the pampering I get from her. I thought I will be missing it. And then it's my dad, my hero and a man who did everything he could to watch me happy.

Being a Vizagate, I feel that I share some unknown affinity towards the lovely ocean and the sandy shores. Luckily, my better-half was sharing a similar taste with me in admiring the azure beauty. Into a new chapter in our lives since a month and a half, we choose to spend some time travelling all the way to an archipelago on a holiday.  So all we did was planned and packed our bags to hop in a plane and land at the Andaman.         W e had a chance to explore diverse waters and enjoy their glittering shades for a week. I could notice a child still alive in me, while I was running and playing on the shore.           I found my craving to get the best while searching for a smoother pebble, a more constructive coral and a brighter shell hoping to carry it and preserve it as a memory.         Serene surroundings and the musical voice of ocean roar made me understand that eternity and existence is all explained in the rise and fall of the ocean tides.       It

            I f you wish to get relaxed in a serene environment rich in lush green woods, azure sea with sparkling shores flooding with marine life and breath in some unpolluted air, then all you need to do is to take a tour to the splendid outpost of India, the ANDAMAN...          A ndaman Islands, located at the juncture of Bay of Bengal and the Andaman Sea, and are a perfect blend of nature's beauty, marvelous marine life, and the incredible monuments of historic significance.                 A million varieties of under water corals, which provide shelter to diverse marine flora and fauna, spectacularly colored fishes, distinct varieties of other island life forms like the Dugong (sea cow), salt water crocodiles, turtles, butterflies and more explain the great biodiversity seen in the islands.                  The Cellular jail (a memorial of Indian freedom struggle) located in Port Blair, Chatham saw mill (2nd largest in Asia), Anthropologica