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15 things I will definitely tell my daughter One Day….

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People say that time just flies away from looking into the innocent eyes and lovely smiles of children and it is definitely not an exaggeration. After becoming a mom to a lovely darling, I can experience the hidden fact behind those words. I can now proudly say that the presence of a baby can make the future worth living... Every time I look into my daughter’s eyes I fall in love with her mesmerizing smile. I tend to forget the past or worry about the future but will hope to live life simply to cherish that moment. I hope the same happens with almost every parent. But later when she sleeps I get to think about how she would face and accept the challenges life would throw at her. It is only then I remember my responsibility as a mother that I should speak my heart out to my little one and try and tell her certain things, which can help her live right. I make sure that one day I will definitely tell these 15 valuable principles, my parents taught me to my lovely darling…  ü ...

Dear Dad, we could never Thank you enough!!!

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                  This post in my blog will always remain special, as it is all about the most precious person in my life. It is none other than my DAD, the real energy and of course the driving force behind our success and happiness.  I am extremely thankful, privileged and definitely proud to be a dear daughter to my lovely parents, because of whom I am here today, who will cross that one extra mile to see us smile.               It is so true that every dad is a super hero for their child. This fact is never an exaggeration and can gain complete acceptance because, he will sacrifice every bit of him to see his kids flourishing and happy.  He shines with pride when we succeed and is the only man who can never hurt us or tolerate our tears or the reason behind them.               The relationship between father and daughter  is always the most spe...

Motherhood --- Mere feeling of being complete...

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                          " Amma" is definitely the most beautiful world and of course a word we all are familiar with since the time we have opened our eyes into this world. I am not an exception to this fact and can frankly say that I am so fond of the lady love, i.e, my mom.           And o n this mothers day, I take a moment to thank her for everything she gave and also share my happiness and delight, in this space, as I am about to step into the new avenues of a sweet and challenging responsibility---  "The Motherhood!!!"                                             It is not at all an exaggeration when I call my mom a true role model for my thoughts and actions. She is the most inspiring person as she wears many hats to juggle several responsibilities within...

A (HOLY...) Day without ELECTRONIC GADGETS....?????

                       Time has changed a lot from the past. Today, we could not imagine a minute of our day without using some electronic gadgets, which are among us as a part of the innovative skills of our ancestors and hold a great impact on our lives. They are actually invented to save our time  and help us lead a better life. But, do we always use it in the right way??? Is the technology helping us lead our lives in the right way or are we missing some of the most valuable time of our lives with the innovative goods??? Let me use this blog post of mine to channel out my views.... Technology is the life of modern society, but a defect free software doesn't exist..                         Imagine yourself without any of the smart phones, laptops or any other gadgets that keep you busy all day. Intriguing isn't it??? Well If I am supposed to s...

Boredom... A sucking emotional state

            " B oredom, an emotional state, can drag an individual to the verge of insanity or can make him/her extremely creative..."               ....Not even a single word in the quotes is an exaggeration as it could be understood just out of experience.                                                  I find myself hanging out in my space after a long time and the post I am making exactly reveals my current state of mind. As a matter of fact, I strongly believe that boredom comes from a boring mind, but may be I stopped finding myself interesting so that I am writing on something that really is a enemy of human kind.  Therefore, overcoming boredom that's drooping over you through loneliness is of utmost importance and we as humans develop habits to do so. Only if you could...

Put away perfectionism for a peaceful living

The word "just perfect!!!" ( the most im.perfect benchmark) is heard and used pretty frequently by most of us. I am not an exemption. It is because, I do agree to the fact perfection in work is needed for a positive outcome, but at the same time I believe it's not a benchmark to determine and grade an individual and his/her standard. For instance; "I just love her, only if she is perfect!", is a degrading and equally a depressing phrase. "Well it could be much better, only if it was done with perfection..." is far better than the former. But, "it is fine if the job done is good enough", is even more relaxing. Perfectionism - A Perplexing Personality  According to psychology, Perfectionism is a complex personality trait of an individual, (tagged as a perfectionist) coupled with both positive and negative aspects and is often seen in females, freaking them to the core. It is so true and this condition can be closely related to OCD...

Thoughts of a newly married girl...

Every girl dreams of marrying a man of her dreams. And for me, he is some one who could love me for being me, understand me, correct me if I am wrong and ofcourse respect my thoughts and individuality. Luckily I could find that someone special, who could bring the magic in my life, and so we tied the knot for a forever just 2 months ago. On the big day... It is obvious that, on the wedding day, every bride will be happy and excited and I am not an exemption. But at the same time my mind was so occupied with several thoughts, unanswered questions and few worries which I now know are really not necessary.  My thoughts... Here are some of those that went across my grey matter during the celebration and these could be common for almost every bride. I was thinking about my mother, who showers her unconditional love and the pampering I get from her. I thought I will be missing it. And then it's my dad, my hero and a man who did everything he could to watch me happy. ...